Chatting with stranger

Once at Office where I work…. I stayed up late at night for works to do. When it was done, I was extremely tired but not sleepy yet. Then I checked my FB account for any notifications and my twitter for any mentions also my google +… But as always…It ended up Boriiiiiiing!!!! But then I remembered the chatting site I used to use when I was in high school to chat to people in all over the world randomly, it’s called Omegle. Well,, and I thought “why don’t use it to chat? must be more interesting than the usual ones (FB, Twitter, YM, Google+….or whatever it is)”

So if you don’t know about it, let me explain a little bit. (Omegle. com) is a site (no need to sign up) that connects you to people in all over the world to chat randomly and personally. So once you log on the site, it will search randomly a person (can be from anywhere in all over the world) who’s also on the line that you can chat with.

so, I logged on the site and had some chattings with different person in different location, but didn’t really find the person who wanted to openly and seriously chat with me. Most of them just wanted to search friend to date with and to… (you know!)

But after some searchings and disconnections, finally I found friend who wanted to seriously chat with me. She’s 17 year-old girl from New Zealand . well here’s the conversations I had with her (shortened)

Me             : Hi
Stranger   : ASL?    ---à (Age, Sex, Location)
Me             : 21 m Jkt
                       you?
Stranger   : 17 F New Zealand
                      wht JKT btw?
Me             : Its Jakarta Indonesia
Stranger   : Well. so why U ended up here?
Me             : I’m looking for friend..
Stranger   : To fu*k…?
Me             : No,, definetly no.. I just think, it must be great to have friend overseas… Share story one
                    another
Stranger   : unfortunately I don’t go that way…
Me             : Why don’t we just give it a try first and see how it’s going?,,,
Stranger   : well..… tell me your story?? about everything… and let’s see how its going….
Me             : well… My name is Suryadi, I m 21 years old, originally from borneo but staying at Jakarta
                     to study in college….bla….bla….bla… bla
The conversation was continuing….. We were telling each other much about our stories and many many more. And suddenly she was coming to the question that I didn’t expect at all… here’s the line:
Stranger   : Do u have GF?
Me             : I ever did..
Stranger   : were you having intimacy together?
Me             : no,,, I mean.. what kind of intimacy you’re talkin about? ..we holded hands sometimes..but
                      never went too far.
Stranger   : really? You mean,, You never kissed?
Me             : never.. in Indonesia kissing, sex and anything intimate,, is considered to be immoral if you do
                      it before you get merried…
Stranger   : But sex is not immoral... it feels great..  so you guys are not interested in sex?
me             : We are.. we’re just humans being.. we can’t help it sometimes… But you can’t just share
                     Your body to someone you think you love, and than you break up and then you do it again
                     with someone else… oh c’mon your body is not just the object of sexuality….
Stranger   : well,, get the point… but sex is created to be enjoyed rite?
Me             : yeeeps… And we Indonesian people believe that it will be muccchhhh more beautiful if you
                      do it in a right way. And the right way is “getting merried” when intimacy is considered to be
                    legal….
Stranger   : ok… learn so much from you… I guess I Have to think many times to have sex…
me             : yeeps....

The conversation was continuing and it expanded to the other topics. But I dont understand, whatever the topic we talked about, it always came to that (intimacy) -__-".  One thing that makes me proud to be Indonesian is we (indonesians) have the clear concept of morality and politeness. life is not merely about fulfilling your desires for joys. The true happyness only comes after the sacrifises. More importantly we have been educated that there's life after where we all go at the end for all the responsibilities of our actions as the consequences. So, even i don't have such a freedom like west people do, but I can guarantee that my life is more meaningful..... Proud to be Indonesian and Muslim.